music gender

So when I listen to girly music one of three things happens.

1. I feel like an amazing and true girl, and absolute goddess of euphoria. And the music makes me ascend to the heavens of fantasies of being a magical, wonderful girl and goddess of the celestial realms. This happens when I listen to anime, or my little pony songs.

2. I imagine I am on a dirt road, neither male nor female, just a vision spirit, with no body, just listening. This happens when I listen to those woman-made songs of the 70's.

3. Modern pop music of 2018, with angry belligerent sounding women and awful alarm-clock sounds. And when I listen to these I don't feel like a woman anymore, but an angry man who want's to die and never be born.

I thus believe gender is not real in the traditional sense. I believe gender is determined by vibrations and frequencies, and is thus musical in nature and transient (trans-gender.)

Hi Angel!

As someone who was born in 1960, I grew up with the sounds of the 70's and generally I listen to 60's 70's and 80's music stuff. I don't go much with anything made after, though there is the odd few that sometimes I quite like.

All my heroines, my inspirations come from that golden age. Women like MTM, Suzi Quatro.... (oh how I copied her!),... then there was Sally Carr and Judith Durham. ONJ, FFM, Felicity Kendall and others. Their songs with their groups or their television. They were simply wonderful to me and I wanted to be them all!

It's all about their inspiration for me and this song in particular, (little did I know), had me in dysphoric confusion in my little teenage brain. I'd wear the tightest jeans, brightest t-shirts and sneakers around '74 trying to be as much like Suzi as acceptable was, back then. I still got various 'you're a boy' type feedback from F&F. .

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xvVr8oqkFqo

As someone else born that same year, I definitely understand. I so wanted to be like Stevie Nicks, or Janis Joplin, and I didn't understand why.

I want to listen to men singing songs to women, and listen to women singing songs to men.

It's annoyingly binary, but it's my situation.

But I only listen to positive uplifting music, regardless of the who is singing and the content. If it isn't positive, I ain't listening to it.

I have enough negative in my life, I ain't letting it into my music.

Tara wrote:As someone else born that same year, I definitely understand. I so wanted to be like Stevie Nicks, or Janis Joplin, and I didn't understand why.

Too young to relate but i can relate, whenever I see some of the songs in my little pony, I want to be the girls singing the songs. But the human girls mainly. In the olden days I wanted to be a pony girl but grew out of it. Now I just want to be a standard human cartoon girl.